Miss you, 2011
Sidenote: This was shared with me today:
“…From the plethora of clairvoyant readings I have done for couples, I have ascertained that this transfer of emotions occurs commonly in relationships involving a partner, often the male, who has difficulty expressing emotions such as depression or anger. The partner who gives herself greater permission to express emotions will inadvertently begin to channel and eventually outwardly express this repressed emotion of her partner. Since it doesn’t really belong to her, she cannot deal with the emotion as effectively as she can with her own and may become quite imbalanced, even hysterical.
This common male/female dynamic has been utilized for centuries by emotionally repressed men in order to justify their superiority over the women they label as ‘irrational’ or ‘overemotional’. Ironically, if and when this type of person (again, often male) begins to take responsibility for the proper expression of his feelings and re-own them, his partner will consequently be freed from feeling the effect of his emotional energy, and both partners, along with the relationship, will reach a more harmonious state of equilibrium. As noted earlier, emotions are most often overwhelming when they are not our own.”
